Slippery Slope

My thoughts belong to me alone, and I refuse to feel guilty about how they might hurt others. My words and my actions can and do have consequences, but my thoughts are how I sort it all out. And I believe the guilt I feel over what runs through my mind in any given moment…

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You Have No Idea, Matt Walsh

    For once I agree with Matt Walsh. Like him, I am heartbroken for the family in Florida whose child was pulled away from them by an alligator; and I know it just as easily could have happened to us. Any of us. His post about this family came up in my news feed…

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Regretting an Abstinence Education

Someday you’ll regret it. If there is one message that rang through loud and clear during my teenage years it was that sex was something to regret. Virginity was sacred. You can’t get it back. Wait until you are ready and give that gift to the right one, otherwise when the right one comes along…

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I Was a Purity Culture Failure

Last Week Tonight with John Oliver just made a great case against abstinence-only sexual education. If you haven’t seen it please go check it out. I wrote my own thoughts on the topic a while back in a post called Pure Sex Talk. I encourage you to read it, but there is so much more…

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Pure Sex Talk

I wasn’t a serious Christian until my junior year of high school. Like many people I was a believer without strong convictions. I thought the Bible was right, but I also kind of figured as long as I didn’t die I would have plenty of time to be forgiven and try harder. So when puberty…

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